This article was published on 5 November 2020. Some information may be out of date.

Money and relationships

  • Follow-up on last time’s financial knowledge quiz — angry comments about women
  • Survey on money and relationship problems
  • Worse for the young, and worse for low and high income than for middle incomes
  • Conflict more likely if … overspending etc.
  • What to do about it

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